Appreciate The Gestures Of Love From Those Around You

There is no lack of words to demonstrate true love, that love that raises the hair and embraces the soul. There are many gestures of love that people who love us offer us that go unnoticed, but they help us to feel better.

A sincere look, a few minutes of silence or just holding hands. Small details in the form of actions that make little noise, but that are so felt that sometimes they even recompose us from the inside.

the art of giving love

Give love, just like that. Because you feel it, because your body asks for it, and because there is no more beautiful way to connect with someone. It is the wonderful art that many people practice, but not all know how to appreciate.

Those who know how to give love don’t expect anything in return because their only objective is to give affection. They are artisans of happiness, tranquility and good relationships. Magic people who turn an ordinary day into something extraordinary.

Your secret weapon is the gestures of love that come from a noble heart. They offer a shoulder to anyone who needs it. They are the support for those who stagger and are people who listen to those who feel their world crumbling without finding a way out.

People who know how to give love direct all their senses to others. They know how to connect and silently read the emotions of others. They are true magicians of happiness, affection and affection.

Feeling wanted without forgetting what is important

Feeling wanted is one of the most beautiful sensations we can experience. Knowing that the other wants to see us, talking and spending time with us are the best gifts we can receive. Even if they sometimes seem insufficient and insignificant.

We have a bad habit of ignoring the little details that others give us every day. Those gestures of love that we deliberately receive and that we sometimes see as an obligation.

If someone gives us affection and that affection is reciprocated, the last thing we can do is ignore it. Maybe it doesn’t meet our expectations or isn’t what we expected, but that doesn’t take away the value of what they offer us.

In love, it is necessary to learn to decipher the other and this also implies learning how the other communicates his affection. Knowing that we have a place in someone else’s mind is comforting, but it’s not enough to build a good relationship. We cannot transform ourselves solely into receivers of love.

A gesture does not only imply the intention of the other, but also the present of their time and, ultimately, part of their life. Therefore, it is necessary to appreciate and acknowledge these gestures and, in some way, let the other know how much we value them.

Around us there are constantly a great number of gestures of love. Details that are worthless, but that make all the difference. They are capable of reversing situations, stealing smiles and flooding the soul with positive energy.

18 gestures of love

It happens from all sides, all the time… We just need to be attentive to notice. Here are some examples of love gestures:

• A strong hug, full of feelings, capable of healing any wound.
• A look of complicity.
• A smile that says “I’m here, with you, and I love your company”.
• A gift without more or less. No specific dates or special days.
• A fun message written on a post-it anywhere in the room.
• Putting on the person’s favorite song because you know they love it and it will make the morning more enjoyable.
• A sweet and gentle affection.

• Saying with emotion “I’m very happy for you”.
• Gaze in awe through those glowing eyes.
• A “good morning”, a  “good night” or even a “I wish you a good morning”.
• Keeping company in important moments.
• Hold the hands so that the person does not feel alone, but accompanied.
• Show interest in what the person does, that person who is the engine of your life.
• Listen to laughter, dry tears, and warn when you think there is danger.
• Take a few minutes to think and go against time.
• Follow up without asking because you know the person needs it.
• Be by your side when there is sun, rain or even storms.
• Talk to you when you’ve made a mistake. Not to say you made a mistake, but to remember that you can always learn.

We could go on endlessly… The list is endless. When love is the impulse to act, the possibilities are endless. 

Knowing how to give gestures of love is an art. A kind of magic that others give us as a gift and that we need to know how to appreciate. Because giving affection means respecting, sharing and transforming. The most beautiful detail that we have to learn to value.